Love is an emotion which everyone nurtures at some point in his life. sentimentality at its peak, so much so that there is hardly any difference between a goddess and her. its such a pious feeling, unless its one of the diversions of love. an amazing feeling which takes away all your attention and everything else in its lap. your whole life is almost guided by this feeling.
but life is based on compromises. some one said it rightly and gave a lot of people this logic of compromise to falsify their emotions and to forget everything which was naturally coming to them.
In every case integrity was the word which was compromised. Integrity is to stand by what you believe in. The word stand by is used only because its hard to listen to your heart in face of difficulties. Listening to your heart means a lot of consequences which people in the normal world cannot endure. its so hard to sustain because we have other desires too to fulfill.
We all may have cried for someone we loved.we loved them so strongly that nothing tangible could limit its boundaries. but sometimes it so happened that the person standing before us didn't comprehend that feeling of love and we were left suffocated. and at that point of time we were left with two ways out. leave the person and find someone else, and for sure the same feeling wont touch us again. or struggle solitary with the self and still love that person. The latter case depends on magnitude of intangible thing you had. you cannot compromise with anyone else on earth.
in my perspective, its difficult to compromise with our own honesty.
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When you are in a relationship, and your partner loves you truly, then that feeling is incomparable. And in most cases, people start to believe that even though that "first love" was special, but real love is now. It is not about "finding" (voluntarily) someone when someone you like, leaves you; but if someone gradually enters your life, and starts to shower her/his love upon you, you start discovering that yeah, you do have a chemistry together and then possessiveness, care, intimacy starts developing. But till the time this does not happen, that first love feeling occupies the most coveted spot.
I must say, I agree to this article but such feelings change when someone starts to love you madly. So saying that "you cannot compromise with anyone else on earth" applies only till the time someone doesn't start to feel your innermost emotions.
When a crush transforms into a relationship, where trust is the username and understanding the password, such that these softwares of intimacy, possessiveness and care become an inseparable part of your life, obviously with your beloved, you call it “LOVE.” It’s always a two-way relationship. You don’t fall in love in the initial stages; it takes time to realize that every single ada of your beloved means a lot to you and gives you pleasure beyond any comparison and you want to share each and every moment of the rest of your life with that special someone. It's not a compromise in any sense; just the destiny or blessings (ur goodness earned) bearing fruits.
Hope you've got what I mean to say..!!
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