Change, Its inevitable... No?

Times change, and it changes everything whatever took it as one of its dimension. Love fades for one and renews with different its new object. Relationships change. Thoughts change. And as rest of a human environment change, he also changes. There is some sort of feedback process going on in there.
But the worst part of everything is that its always unexpected. Say, when a man is on high in a love relation, he never expects it to change. And eventually,when it changes, It pains. Suffocates, chokes like anything. Then your greatest desire is to talk to that person and undo everything which caused the hiatus. None of your friends seem to help you exactly. And you suffer, until you realise with all your conciousness, that you should move on and should forgive the person who caused you to choke out of emotion.
Every relationship takes birth and dies with time as one of its dimensions. Time never spares anything. It eventually changes everything. Friendship wears out, love between a husband and wife takes toll. Beauty of even miss universe takes a dip. And eventually, however beautiful, everything meets the same life cycle.
Accepting this thing helps, in a way that you get less hurt when things are out of your control. Keep your expectations low (you will be happier) and be ready to accept the changes, if any. If sth good has come, enjoy. But remain unattached because bad is inevitable.
I might seem pessimistic, but it helps someone somewhere. :)

We sometimes do things to prove something. Sometimes to prove character, honesty, to show love, to be considered good, sometimes to prove your care, and list goes on. Sometimes to prove that we belong to a class called cool. Most of the time we want to prove something which we are not.
Everyone needs some sort of acceptance. He wants to be praised. Sometimes people start taking pride in some non sense things as well, as i once saw a person who took pride in eating a lot, someone took pride in being short tempered. Its a kind of pride that inhibits them to leave these habits which even they know is harmful for them.
Show of character is very prevalent in girls and guys even. They feel happy if some one gives them certificate of what they had wanted to prove and then it becomes disastrous. It shows in their character permanently.
Everyone has his own traits.just prove to yourself what you are. Change self if you find better paths. What's show is for??